ThE NeW FrauD SysteM

Gone are the days when people shy away from pregnancy before marriage. Note that I did not say sex before marriage cause that has been even before my mother was born in as much as they may like to deny it. In the past, pregnancy before marriage use to be a fast track to marital life, if a girl was discovered pregnant, that was all it took. There were no tears for being single or finding MR /MRS right as much as we have now, then if you want a husband badly all you needed to do was to get ‘knocked up’. Likewise if she’s too beautiful to resist and you want her trapped up in your house: get her ‘knocked up’. Well times have changed for as we all grow technically, geographically and literally so has every aspect of our lives changed too.

Unfortunately sexually transmitted diseases have grown along side with all of us however this has not stopped millions of people from going ‘bare’. You will think as these sexually transmitted evils creep along side human activities the act of unprotected sex will cease and decease but on the contrary it is quite the opposite. I recently read the most absurd story ever told between a Nigerian artist and his upcoming baby mother.  She claimed she was pregnant for him and displayed her baby bump on social media but he replied her with a record affirming the sex but discrediting the growing child as he only slept with her once. How brilliant! Honestly, African parents really need to start giving some sex education; it will really make these adults less ignorant.

What got to me the most is not the pregnancy claim or the man’s ignorance but the thought of how many other girls he had slept with once with no protection. If you’ve decided to sleep with a girl just once because you know from the onset you have no interest in her at all, why go bare? These guys just go around counting bodies ‘bare-less’, spreading diseases across nations, not fearing for their health nor fearing for their lives. The women on the other hand who are supposed to be the smarter species, although stupid enough to get money through any means for frivolous covetousness have decided to cash in on this, putting the world unto a new fraud system; the baby mama scheme.

The desire for money has grown more intensively than the desire for marriage unlike years before now. Getting pregnant now before marriage is no longer a motivation to get married in itself but a scheme for a better life. However am not sure how that is working out these days. I guess some scammers are more calculating than others, this is not to say that all pregnancies before marriage are based on a motive, as terrible as the world may seem there are still so many honourable and genuine individuals. Though life as we know it is filled with so many thorns in its roses just as there is no scam with low risk, making the one with the highest risk of all the baby scam; with this you literally pay with your life and the life of another, the innocent other.

Women are just so extra in everything we do but what does it matter, we’re bent on getting what we want and it doesn’t even matter whether it is the baby, the money or the marriage. Oh! But the men are catching up real fast on this one, they’ve even created for themselves a counter fraud: the ‘you’re on your own type of fraud’. So the next time you think you want to trap or scam a man and before you spread your legs to diseases and babies, I will suggest you write a fan mail to Blac China.