The new age of hypocrisy

These days guys can’t stick to one woman, our fathers can’t keep their hands off our future wives, and girls couldn’t care less. Nigeria has successfullly become the new Sodom and Gomorrah, a new technology playground for the devil himself, I only pray God does not wipe us out completely. The percentage of weddings every weekend compared with the percentage of single women in Nigeria is hitting equilibrium; no surpluses, no deficits. The same rating goes for unhappy homes and broken marriages, all has reach its peak. We live in a society where bank marketers are corporate prostitutes and it is norm to have four to five girls on the side separate from your Mrs. Why then do we consider ‘runs’ girls as bad eggs and why do we get so appalled when Nigerian girls speak out to say they have two to three boyfriends simultaneously? You can hate them all you want, but these girls are getting what they want and are getting married right in front our faces. 

Girls cannot do bad all by themselves

Just like in every business there is the manufacturer and the end user. The demand for loose uncanny girls in Nigeria is extremely high hence the supply of it. Men, if you are not demanding for it, then there will be no market for it. As far as I am concerned Nigerian men are the most unruly men in the world when it comes to the demand for sex, there tend to be no age limit, no barrier, no discipline and no discrimination. Yet they are so quick to slash their tongues when it comes to slandering a sister they have slept with, forgetting that these girls are our sisters, cousins, nieces, girlfriends, wives and sometimes even our mothers…so who are we fooling???

Live a lot

That is not to say that we should forget our morals and jump on the bandwagon of sex on the go. What am saying in other words is to do what makes you happy and not what you think the world will the happy with. You can never please anyone because there will always be someone you missed out on, so why not just please yourself by staying happy. A lot of women feel when they act in a certain kind of way it keeps a man or vice-versa, the truth is you can never keep a man that doesn’t want to be kept and you cannot stop a cheating man from cheating on you. So forget the made rule and live by your own rules. Forget what your friends think about you; they’re probably doing worse things than you can ever imagine. 

This is a man’s world

Women; in as much as you get good education, perfect teeth, fantastic figure, 2 master’s degree, a PhD, different honourees and recognitions, you are still a demi-slave in a man’s world. With all of that you will still bow your head to your husband unless you want to be like Condoleezza Rice and have no husband or Oprah with a partner for donkey years. So isn’t it better to end up with a man that gives you some sort of happiness than to be miserable all your life?  Because whether he is a poor man or a rich man, your slave duty applies; you cook, you clean, you go to work just like him, you take care of the kids, you are not expected to be tired, you don’t deserve any fun…in short if you are having too much fun be ready to start sitting at home cause he will make sure about it. so what if you married him for his money? At least you get the joy of spending it and if you marry for love am sure you are content enough to turn a blind eye to his stuggling state(that is if he is struggling) by struggling with him. On the other hand…he makes all the rules, he is tired all the time, ‘he works the hardest’ he expects a clean house, he can’t be disturbed with the cries of his own child, he wants sex when he wants it, he can invite his friends as he so pleases, he goes and comes as he likes and you bring in more cash flow than he does (sometimes).

Men want it all

Even when men hit 60, they still want the finest girls under their arms to do as they like with, as well as wanting a good wife at home... probably one they married a virgin and they want the same for their sons too. Unfortunately karma has started coming on these men. They are now witnessing their sons bring home girls that they have had one or two things with or a girl they saw with their friend the last time they went to the country club and before you know it, all hell is breaking lose. On such situations, the men are never to blame. The girls always end up on the wrong end of the stick and before you know it, they're single all over again. So women, in everything you do, watch your back for you are never on the right and don't be deceived enough to believe that you share equal rights with men. You don't and that probably is the hardest truth you might want to come to terms with.