Oh menh! Its been too long...no inspiration no muse nothing. I guess I have happiness block! SMH. I once heard Adele the singer say that when she is too happy she cannot make music period! Of course am paraphrasing but you get the point. yea? yes!
Well something came to mind about two days ago whilst I was reading one of Shakespeare's novels 'The taming of the shrew' and how ridiculous some of us act for love. It took me back to my own foolishness, gosh! I cannot comprehend it now but back then it made too much sense.
I remember literally praying, fasting and sobbing to God to please make me taller and a whole lot leaner so I could be deemed fit for my then boyfriend. You see he is 6'3 tall and I am a mere 5'2 tall, barely! When I say I took my prayers to God so seriously am not joking. I believed I was in love, I seriously did though but something at the back of my mind always told me I was in the wrong relationship. I took my madness further by researching what could be done to gain height and found that it was possible somewhere in china where they could break the legs, add metal into them and give or take 3-4 years it would be totally healed giving you brand new height. Believe me that was good news and even better that there was a guy who had done it. Viola! I found a cure to my love craze' the only thing left was finding the time to embark on the wonderful journey.
It goes without saying that that was a terribly relationship that would have lead to the road of perdition if I wasn't already on it, it was also one filled with deceits from a disloyal partner. Wasn't too long after that I found out he was cheating and worse; it was like I suddenly went from the only chic to the side chic. This was someone that had introduced me to all his family members as his wife to be, I remember his mother use to call my mum quite often just for chats. Thank God for courage to move on and say 'no this is not what I want for my life'. The only compensation I got from that situation is that he never gave up trying to get back with me for 4years and it took me relocating to a different country for him to give up completely. Although one thing was certain, I never looked back or ever even considered getting back with him. Thank God for having my back on that one.
Wow! This wasn't even meant to be a post, I actually just came to ask the question, SO.., do tell,
WHAT IS THE MOST RIDICULOUS THING YOU'VE DONE FOR THE SAKE OF LOVE?
I've shared mine can't wait to read about yours.



