REBOUND!!!

The easiest way to get over someone is to get under someone else, until 3 years down the line you are still getting under someone else and unfortunately you’ve been under 7 ‘someone elses’ and yet till not over that someone. Now settle down… the only thing rebound is good enough for is easing your mind for a period of time and helping you believe ‘you are too hot to be cold’ (lol! sorry I just had to say that) except for one thing though; that heartbreak left your heart cold enough to be stone and too scared to open up to love and be loved in return. The only rule to finding true love is to be true to yourself, there are no rules to avoiding heartbreaks but the rule to surviving it is by admitting you are broken hearted. The first pain that strikes your heart when you realise you’ve been played is the shame that surrounds it. You start to think of every reason why you held the short end of the stick, you can’t imagine why a mere mortal cannot see you for the amazing person you are, you begin to remember how much effort you put into the relationship just to make it work and how that will seem pointless now to the third party listening because in as much as everyone says you will be fine, something rings constantly in your head telling you; ‘you just weren’t good enough’.